#sorryayesha #Ayesha #wishwecouldhelpyou
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I have seen women make a living out of making their husbands total dependants.
The only meaning associated with their life lies in serving their husbands, like handing over the handkerchief, polishing his shoes, arranging his shaving kit, serving him breakfast in the bed, making him pop his pills morning and evening, sometimes even dusting his car. There was no worry as long as they were happy doing it, not applying this same definition and yardstick of being a good wife to fellow women. Stopped labelling women who differed from their ideology as sanskaarheen.
Women fail to understand that adult men need to be taught to take care of themselves.
If mothers failed in their boys' upbringing, then Wives flopped at the game of making men capable of meeting their daily errands, or maybe wives see convenience in making their husbands dependants.
I have seen women do these jobs gleefully in the guise of performing the obligations of a dutiful wife. They wear the badge of an obedient wife with pride and honour and look down on women who do not treat adult men as kids.
I have seen fellow women talk in mean terms about self-reliant working gals. I have also seen women apply different yardsticks to their daughters and daughters-in-law. They want daughters to be independent and daughters-in-law as devoted wives to their badly raised sons.
Behind every Ayesha's death, there is a bogus and dubious practice of exchanging children for money in the name of marriage which itself is a fraud and a biased system.
Why do you think of a daughter as a burden and marriage as an ultimate destination for her?
There is life beyond the clutches of wedlock; there is love, there is work, there is travel, there is pleasure, there is growth, there is happiness in adopting children, there is contentment in taking care of aged parents.
If we raise our daughters to wash off our hands by giving them away in marriage, believe me, we do not deserve to be the parents of a girl child.
If we keep teaching our girls to adopt the practice of worshipping a man a husband as a god, then, trust me, we are raising inferior beings, and that's when Ayesha's will happen.
Raise your daughter as an equal being and teach your son to treat his wife as a free person who deserves the same freedom and respect as his sister. Don't get a maid home; get home a daughter.
Stop talking bad about fellow women to hide your incompetence; stop maligning successful woking women as characterless. Put an end to the scathing attack on all the women who aspire to be much more than what you seek from life.
My complaint largely rests with women and less with men.
They are extremely biased towards men to consider serving men as the ultimate and sole purpose of their lives.
If you talk a word more, you are labelled a rebel, and then the kitty party aunties will start singing in chorus the songs of culture, sanskar Sanskrit blah blah...
Sanskar, my foot, what sanskara is it to crush the needs of a woman aspiring to live, think, work, earn and spend like a Man.
How is it justified when you say a boy should take care of his parents, and it is not the girl's responsibility to take care of her parents?
There is no sanskar more magnanimous than the good intent to accept women as equal beings with equal rights. If your son is precious to you, so is somebody's daughter to them.
Your son needs a wife, you a daughter in law and not just the other way round, respect the interdependence and stop living in a superior world.
Our boardrooms are not yet a very competitive space for men as we have nipped the girls at the budding stage, aspiring to reach there.
The girls spared the boardroom fights for men worldwide; imagine the chaos and clamour in the male world when females start eyeing that space.
The shaken ego, the mutilated pride, and the damaged self-esteem will come out in the open naked, exposing how insecure men are in reality.
Ayesha wish we could do something to save you!
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