A Big Shoutout to All the Women Fighting Different Battles

 A Big Shoutout to All the Women Fighting Different Battles

Women everywhere are fighting silent battles every single day.

Battles with self-doubt, with guilt, with that sinking feeling of being inadequate, incomplete, insufficient.

To you, I say I feel you. I hear you. I understand you.

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There’s also another category of women, those who remain locked in bad marriages. They do it for the children, for the elders, for the “family name,” for the sake of keeping society comfortable while their own hearts stay heavy. Silent divorces are on the rise. And to you, I say you are not alone.

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To the Women Who Feel Inadequate

When a man strays, when he gets attracted to other women, flirts within your own circle, or even steps into an affair, pls remember the truth,

It is not your fault.

He does not wander because you are lacking.

He wanders because he lacks moral strength.

Because he craves validation.

Because his machismo needs feeding.

Because he confuses money with love.

Because he falls for shallow praise.

Do not wear his sins as your guilt.

Do not confront or fight or defend or cover up fpr him,,,,

Just step back, hold your dignity, and act like the queen you are.

He may come back grounded, guilty, seeking you again.

And that is when you will have the power to decide his fate.

Let's assume he is not coming back. Even then, it is not a lack; it is a gain to not have a man of weak integrity in your life.

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To the Women in Unequal Marriages

Then some marriages do not collapse because of infidelity but because of mismatched minds, mismatched financial status, mismatched income, mismatched upbringing.

Differences in mindset, outlook, values.

Differences in how you spend, how you dream, how you treat each other’s families,

This battle is quieter, but no less brutal. It eats away at harmony, at peace, at the possibility of partnership.

To every woman in either of these battles: hold your head high.

Your worth is not defined by someone else’s weakness.

Your happiness does not have to be chained to someone else’s choices.

You are stronger than you think.

You are more complete than you believe.

You are enough.

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Don't let someone else's opinion of you make you feel less. Instead, spend time on yourself and focus on making yourself happy.

We are not all born alike. You are not here in this life to please another person; instead, spend time identifying your purpose, in service to the people who are less fortunate, to the weak, to the pained, to the hurt.

You are not born just to be a good wife or a good daughter; you are as important as the men you are surrounded with. You have spent time making their lives beautiful, hence you may lack in earning money or having a work life. That doesn't mean you are incapable; you need to surrender.

Believe in yourself and don't become someone else to please him.

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This note is to all the women who are feeling low and hurt for no fault of theirs..... to the women i interacted with !