Sunday gyan

Sunday gyan

I : don't you realise he is working against your intrest, why do u help him , when will you understand the true colors of people , why don't you see through their wicked designs

He : so I shouldn't help anyone who is of no use to me ?

I : yes we should help people , invest in people who can be of use to us when we need them

He . Is this your interpretation of bhagwad Gita

I said why r u dragging Gita here

He : because you believe in it, and it says not to expect anything in return

I : it also preaches to not tolerate any wrong done to us

He : so helping a person who is of no use to us is equivalent to doing wrong to oneself ?

Not exactly but we should also understand the motive of the people specially of those who i believe are exploiting u

He : how does that matter to us ?
His motives are his , our motives are ours

I : getting exploited knowingly amounts to foolishness
We will not be forgiven for our ignorance, we should learn with time , upgrade understanding and defeat the bad along with doing the good .

He: I will not concur with your opinion of "helping a man with bad intentions is not good "

I : according to me you are not a smart person

He : the goal of my life is not to get into your good books

I : I will assume that you are helping the other person to get into his good books then ?

He : that's another stupid interpretation

I : you will regret doing this and we will debate on the same one day

He : i do not have any problem wih your faith in your intuition, I believe what I am doing right now is not wrong, if I will be proven wrong later, I will have no regrets for that , because I am doing the right, right now.
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I observed participated and moderated such family debates innumerable times ..... I think this happens in every household

We are all so circumstantial, at different points of evolution ... everyone has their own journey , and their understanding of right and wrong is their right ..