Tuesday, December 8, 2020

KANGANA SHOULD KNOW WHEN TO STOP!

 KANGANA YOU SHOULD KNOW WHEN TO STOP!

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If at all this lady joins the political mainstream, i guess she will make a miserable one. Brace yourself Kangana your future career is a 1000 times more misogynistic and nepotistic.
Kangana, unfortunately, you are making this you vs them which is in itself a faulty strategy. Impact of sensationalism and emotional tweets will be transitory and in the process, you will lose the trust OF THE AUDIENCE
The most foolish move by you is making enemies everywhere. You shouldn't have responded to Jaya Bachchan's speech. See you are now pitted against her and the war of words will continue, this is exactly what your critics want.
You will be quickly trapped in the cobweb of Bollywood, politics and drug cartels. however powerful the forces which are backing you, they will not hesitate for a second to ditch you after they are done with you.
You will then repeat this same war on politicians trying to expose them.
What you should do right now is not get carried away by the applause and attention. Most of the applauses coming your way are from people with vested interests, shooting over your shoulder.
COME OUT OF THE MANIKARNIKA AVATAR, THE REAL AND REEL LINES ARE GETTING BLURRED.
Focus on your craft, work sincerely, talk less, think more, write and then read a 100 times before you release a tweet.
The bubble of this hype will explode if not tomorrow perhaps a year later and then you will be left unprotected and vulnerable.
I was always a fan of your spirit and unflinching honesty. The lady who I thought is bold and brave to take head-on bringing out the dirty secrets of Bollywood into the public domain.
If you thought only Bollywood is corrupt then my dear I have all my sympathies for your naiveness.
In every small and big organisation, some members are victims of favouritism, nepotism and bigotry. Fighting is not an option for every problem, some needs to be ignored and some left to poetic justice.
Chose your battles wisely.
Not all people deserve your time and attention.
Not all problems need to be taken head-on.
Bequeath some things to time and creation, It has a larger responsibility in ENSURING a fair trial in the higher court.
Have faith, if a small-town girl like you could make it this big then there is something working in your favour, trust that force which helped you make it this far, HAVE FAITH IN IT, it will take you farther.
Don't exhaust your blessings by overusing them or abusing them.
We cannot remain engaged forever in your ugly battles with Hrithik, Shiv Sena, Jaya Bachchan and whoever.
I take strong objection to you maligning fellow hardworking girls as B grade actors.
I have strong objection to you addressing the head of a state as "Thu", don't get carried away, don't lose your dignity, this is exactly what your detractors want you TO DO.
Political battles are won by making friends, not enemies. Imagine If India fought simultaneous battles with China, Pakistan, Srilanka, USA, Russia, Burma all of them, then who will stand by it.
fighting is easy, holding back and let the moment pass by is difficult.
if you are a spiritual person and if you believe in teachings of Sadhguru then turn inwards, explore the power within, have a dialogue with your creator about the injustice being done to you.
He will show you the light, he will show you the path, he will take it on himself to salvage you out of difficult times, have PATIENCE and have FAITH.
If your agenda is truly political then lady, I am waiting to see you in the parliament fighting on behalf of all of us.

CORONA TALES!

 I am Penning this memoir on the eve of the 21st day of showing the first symptom of possible coronavirus infection.

after contracting it I passed the infection to multiple people thereon.
The husband
Praveen Reddy
who was attending to me with all the masks and proper gear showed the first sign within 5 days of I showing the symptoms, the cook who reached me food thrice a day was the third victim, then the son
Rahul Reddy
who was attending to both parents, and then another help (who stays with us) was the fifth victim. I could successfully pass on the infection to 4 more people which gave the impetus to my daughter to call me Typhoid Mary (an interesting case study of a lady from the past who spread the disease everywhere she went ., pls google).
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I recovered within 7 days and then went on to take care of the husband and the rest of the patients at home.
It was an exciting circular activity of taking care of each other.
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The dogs and the garden were relegated to the farthest corners of my daily chores. They peeped into the house from every possible window craving for my time and attention. I knew they could wait in the best interest of everyone.
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Meanwhile, the farm bill happened in the parliament, I missed the monsoon session albeit, through tv channels, the hathras victim made me bleed. I was peeping into NEWS whenever I could and I had so much to say. But In all chaos, one thing which made place and presence felt was the IPL. THE CRICKET CRAZY HUSBAND AND HOME did not miss a single ball. It was ridiculous to watch the fake applause. The only moments of laughter and happiness on my man's face was whenever the ball went off the boundary.
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Thankfully we all completed our prescribed course of treatment, now all the blood parameters are near normal. Today I got the home sanitised with a fogger and a spray machine bidding a final goodbye to any trace of the virus as a fomite.
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This writeup will be incomplete if I do not express my gratitude and thankfulness to the human beings who stood by me in the past 21 days.
My
Reddy Healthcare, Siliguri
family, who reassuringly worked an hour extra to ensure that no service was hampered in our absence. from taking our health updates time to time, keeping us steadily supplied with medicines and oxygen cylinders at home to everything which is expected of the team was delivered.
That's why I call my team my beloved extended family. there is a relationship beyond employee and employer which I treasure from my end.
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Friends and Family made me realise the ecosystem of interdependency in bad health days. the brother
Navinchandra Reddy
Vani Reddy
and sister
Archana Reddy
of the husband were the most worried, followed by my
Gvs Prakash Reddy Sheru
brother and his family. they kept a watch on each and every movement of ours with a telescope fitted in their eyes. they were always rightfully skeptical of my decisions vis a vis treatment, both of them ensured that they took the opinion of experts in their circle to ensure that we are doing the right.
The older brother From the USA
Sharat Reddy
Manitha Reddy
instructed for video calls, he kept us engaged for a long time on phone so that we don't feel bored in isolation. told stories about presidential elections , about ruth bader Ginsberg which was A current topic then.
I experienced for the first time that Relations mature with time like wine, the older we grow the closer we creep into each other. my sister in law
Manitha Reddy
gave me feedback on how i evolved in the past 25 years, from an arrogant new bahu to a mature caring lady now. it felt good to have a heart to heart conversation , all thanks to corona.
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family is a blessing, family is a bliss.
In all this one constant irritation from my husband was, "I hope my mummy is not worried, pls don't share all the details about our illness with her ..Don't this dont that etc..sleep talking mummy
Pramila Reddy
I said hello "Don't do too much of mummy mummy even now. you are 50 she is 70", RELAX!
to which the son replied mom don't you think we both will be in the same situation someday, don't behave like the tv serial witchy bahu, to which the daughter replied, bhaiyya you know she anyway married dad for his money, so this is expected of typhoid Mary.
IN MY HOUSE I DON T KNOW WHY I ALLOW ALL THE JOKES ON ME.
For my brother and his family coronavirus is a disease which can be killed with steam inhalations and gargling, so their content advise was to eat fruits and take steam, which I said I am doing and it is helping.
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My doctors who helped me back to life
Prem Dorjee Bhutia
(who was 24/7 on ph with us) who was as involved in each of us as we were in each other. There wasn't a minute when he did not think of what best to offer so that we did not deteriorate further. A god sent person in my life, the best of a friend, guide, mentor and caregiver.
Chandra Prasad Sharma
a doctor (who spent 3 hours by his friend's bedside to make us all feel good)....
he is our doctor, a friend, a well-wisher and a fellow concerned human being. He set a benchmark on how a friend should stand by in tough times.
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our diagnosticians dr
Bishal Sharma
and dr
Khilanath Sharma
who kept a watch on all the alarming parameters. Who managed us and their reddy healthcare. these two human beings and their families crossed our paths for some beautiful reasons I guess. indebted to them.
bishal said ma'am dont worry about anything I will take care, and that I felt like a son saying to his mother.
dr khilanath and I bond like best friends sharing common interests in astrology literature and philosophy. there is an instant understanding of each other's needs, we silently communicate everything and just manage things between us effortlessly. If he is around I stop worrying about problems he can solve for me.
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dr
Neela Alen
and dr
Kaushik Bhattacharya
were involved in us as friends and doctors. Neela sent me the herbal powders and a ritual ph call morning-evening keeping a tab on our disease progression. This brought us closer than ever before. also her understanding of dealing with the disease helped me understand it better.
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My
Naresh Agarwal
BHAIYYA who should have been a doctor but who is no less than a doctor when it comes to understanding on how this disease is behaving socially. Our first interaction was " how dare you to keep this news hidden from me for so long, once he took charge of us, I stopped bothering about what medicine to buy from where. He was like the guardian all along the way. My nephew Jayesh should be a youth icon on how gentle and caring a young boy should be.
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My
Binny
anna and
Vishika Chhetri-Sharma
ensured that my table was always filled with food. there was never a moment when I was wondering or worrying about what to cook.
there was a steady supply of dishes from non-veg to desserts.
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Nita Mallik
my friend planned every dish to be sent for lunch and dinner. apart from being on the ph with us all the time she squeezed in time to cook a nutritious meal for lunch and dinner. These two ladies were like Annapurna devis in my corona times.
indebted to the two of you my friends can never compensate for all the love care and concern you two showered on me.
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my friend
Neeru Sharma
was a calming reassurance that all will be well. You need people to tell you that no harm will ever come your way.
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Mr
Nemchand Mittal
uncle came all the way to deliver herbal medicines and dry fruits as a gesture of care and concern whereas he was not at all needed to do the same. The gesture mattered a lot to me.
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Pankaj Kumar
sir and
Mausami Kumar
from Kolkata were on text day and night, taking hourly updates, giving suggestions, reading about every new treatment available, discussing our case with AIIMS doctors, with our doctors, they left me wondering what good did I do to inherit this love and concern from them.
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Narendra Mitruka
might be our auditor but a friend of the family for past 20 years, insisted I speak to all the experts in Hyderabad Chennai wherever to ensure that we are not missing the best treatment for his friend. Recovering from corona makes one very empathetic I guess and that's where his concern was coming from.
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my husband's friends from faraway Maharashtra who came to know about it kept taking updates, giving me suggestions on what better iI can do for their friend.
Ramakant
bhiayya,
Sanjay Shete
Sunita Kadam
, Madhu bhaiyya. having so many doctors inquiring about health status made me an expert on the corona. interaction with experts is always enriching.
your friend is fine now, all thanks to your prayers and love for him. all the friends from school ..th chuddy buddies i have been reading your messages too...
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To so many missed calls, and so many messages: behen mai hoon tere saath from
Shailesh Kumar Jha
, don't hesitate to call me at any hour.
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ma'am dr reddy sir helped so many people, god will help him recover faster this was a call of reassurance from Sharad Agarwal, it really made me feel good sharad.
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Niranjan bhaiyya saying babhi inko theek hona padega, hum sabko inki bahot zaroorat hai, kuch bi chaheye , bas ph kardijiye, mai aajaunga.
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those innumerable missed calls which certainly made me smile for a moment, made me feel good that we dwell in your thoughts and prayers, those WhatsApp messages which I couldn't respond in time but reading them made me feel remembered and thought of.
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my school friends who called me to say that I am a fighter and I will come out of this, guys and girls who I did not speak to in 30 years called me to give that one nudge of feel-good, cracked a school time joke.
Sheetal Uttarwar Pampattiwar
Sonali Joshi
Sandeep Dubey
Jayshree Pradhan
each one of you ,,rajshekar'
Vishal Kortalwar
Pankaj Kokate
Prasad Tikkawar
Achyut Reddy Sarsan
Deepak Das
and each one of you
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my friend
Suchitra
who indulged me in a long chat on how so many got infected and cured...
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This coronavirus made me connect to the people from all corners of the globe.
There is a family of aunts uncles and cousins from who we kept this infection hidden for time being because we did not all of them worrying about us.
aap sabse maafi maangti hoon, for not revealing it to you all. I thought the older aunts and uncles should not be troubled with news of illness and disease. APOLOGIES.
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finally my learning
This is a very strange disease, it treated all the 5 people in my house differently. it kind of went with vengeance on the doctor for he has been at his job without fearing it since the pandemic broke out. so it was kind of flexing its muscles on him. they had a good tug of war between them, giving us some moments of anxiety on who the winner is going to be.
but I guess it understood that it cannot outlive its turn in anybody, so finally decided to end its journey inside our bodies and home
A moment of triumph that we could restrict it and put an end to its spread from our side.
The extent of damage it has caused to each one of us individually will be revealed in the times to come. The scars on the organs are going to be our friends forever as a reminder of our association.
The multiple articles I read suggest that it is never over with corona forever. Hoping for good times health wise.
One significant observation is: it is a psychological downer. during the first week, it made me seek questions on the existential crisis, very depressing and negative feeling all along. if we do not get enough love and care of friends and family we may sink into a temporary depression.
I know how it feels so dear world here I declare my support to anyone of you going through this, I can talk to you share my experience and guide towards some scientific data which I collected in the process. I can help with food, medicines, diagnostic tests and guide you on some good stuff to read.
PLEASE DO NOT PING ME ON PERSONAL MESSENGER to KNOW ABOUT MY WELL BEING. we are cured and in the process of accumulating the energy lost in fighting the disease.
Let us not waste time in meaningless chat.
let us chant
go corona go
go corona go
take all the precautions but even then there is no assurance that it will not find a way into your body.
So be prepared to fight when it strikes!

BEWARE, DEAR COMMON MAN, YOU ARE FAR MORE POWERFUL THAN YOU WANT TO BELIEVE.

 BEWARE, DEAR COMMON MAN, YOU ARE FAR MORE POWERFUL THAN YOU WANT TO BELIEVE.

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The discussion on TRP in various channels reminded me of the fruit sellers rubbing wax on the fruits, the sabziwala sprinkling water on the vegetables to make them appear fresh, the saag wala fitting some grass and herbs (inedible) in between the green leaves to make them appear larger. Small business small tricks, big business big tricks: THE ONLY DIFFERENCE.
(bewakoof banana is the common link).
These MBA'S and foreign university graduate, big names with a million followers on Facebook and twitter will stoop to any level to boost their TRP's. Honestly, it is not surprising, and slowly becoming acceptable too.
Everything in today's world is a commodity.
Education, health care, legal services, journalism, Tax consultancy you name it and I will tell you that all of us are chasing wealth, to horde more and more.
Legal illegal, ethical, unethical etc. is not in the purview of our moral compass anymore.
Our aim is business expansion.
None of us has a right to take the moral high ground.
Some are open on your face like Arnab, some are sly and work undercover like Rajdeep, end of the day everyone is agenda-driven and are puppets of someone high up.
Some do it in the garb of Hindutva while others do it in the guise of secularism, the motto for each one of them is profit maximisation by exploiting the needs of leaders gunning for power.
Manier times the media houses are planted by the leaders to work as their PR machinery 24/7. It sounds ok to me after watching Hollywood movies where they describe this as a STRATEGY MAKING!
The west aping crazy Indians that we are, I find it progressive and modern to walk in their trail.
It becomes evident who stands with who when you watch the news.
There isn't a single channel or an anchor who hasn't vowed his allegiance to an ideology.
Yes, there are exceptions, as we all know the one who speaks the truth, the who isn't ready to sell his soul, the one who is not willing to lick the boots, all of them shoved and forced to the periphery, He/She goes unnoticed. They end up having a mediocre career, labelled as lacklustre performers.
If you want to stay in the game, massage the right ego's, lick and clean the boots properly, give up self-respect for higher pays and promotions.
You can make it like a Rajdeep or an Arnab or a Barkha,(yes for me they all can easily fit into the same bracket) or a Ravish Kumar.
You are far more intelligent than the few names I mentioned, you haven't made it big because somewhere you were hesitating to cross a certain Lakshman Rekha which each one of you defined for yourselves.
It is people like you we should be the fans of, unfortunately, you never reach the common man, the masses.
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Some of us are under Arnab euphoria while others are under Rajdeep elation. Both the groups will now dump me into the opposite camp labelling me as an agent of the other.
We often do this to people with a differing opinion. I am ready to face the brickbats for writing this.
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Why can't we be ideology less, and objective while analysing nay person/scenario or event?
Why should we side with a Rhea or a Sushant?
Why should the journalists take a position declaring Rhea as innocent/guilty?
They get funded to take a side, then they work their charm on us, keep us engaged with various stories to make us believe that their narrative is correct.
We foolish Janata get swayed based on our past experiences, (otherwise, we are intelligent while bargaining with the small-time vegetable seller or our tailor) start taking sides by falling into the trap of prime time.
We are the pawns of a big game, We are the vote bank, We are the TRP we are the customers, but we are being treated like dirt, as brainless, as a herd, as a commodity.
LET US NOT BECOME A COMMODITY TO BE BROUGHT BY MONEY, EMOTIONS, SENSATIONALISM OR IN THE NAME OF THE GOD.
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Let us start exercising our right as sensible objective human beings.
Rhea, Kangana has motives beyond our understanding and emotions.
If we go in defence of the one, we have sold our conscience to a narrative.
Narratives will be thrust upon us every single day because there are agencies which exist for this sole purpose. To sell a viewpoint, to generate TRP's. To increase the AD Revenue, to create positive vibes in favour of a leader. They all are vultures waiting for an opportunity to make inroads into our minds.
BEWARE, DEAR COMMON MAN, YOU ARE FAR MORE POWERFUL THAN YOU WANT TO BELIEVE.

LOTUS, next to the POTUS

 LOTUS next to the POTUS.

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In this battle of perception on who is better between Biden/trump, Tejaswi/Nitish, it is the common man who is the biggest loser.
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Ulta Nationalist believes that Trump is the friend of India so he should win whereas the ultra humanist believes Biden to be a Liberal Humanist so he should win.
A Secular Indian thinks that Tejaswi will stand for the rights of every Bihari, whereas Nitish is an ally of the right-wing ideology.
In this battle of perception, We believe that we have taken the right stand in the best interest of our country/people/religion/humanity etc.
What we fail to understand is what we think matters only to the extent the leader gets elected to the office. Once he is on the chair, he becomes an agent of various powerful forces and lobbies.
It might be a Biden or Trump a Tejasvi or a Nitish Dear AAM Janata please do not get carried away.
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Recently a tamil friend called me to extend vijaya dashmi greetings while doing so she squeezed in the topic of kamal harris to flaunt how she is the daughter of her maternal uncles wifes cousins cousin.
Every second tamilian i know is her distant relative now.
Celebrations on Kamala Harris election are reasonable in Tamilnadu, as the person of their descent has reached the second-highest position of the most powerful country on the earth is worth taking pride.
The most important thing is Kamal Harris should be loyal and serving the interests of the country and people who voted her to power even if that sometimes is observed as working against India.
Kamala The LOTUS is an American representative an ardent supporter of human rights, but the right-wing in India can take some solace in the fact that there is a LOTUS next to the POTUS.
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Arnab Goswami never sounded like a journalist to me.
He always appeared like a very talented actor, who is suitable for doing high decibel dialogue delivery based movies, he is the Sunny Deol of television news just like sunny was in Damini and Gadar.
One thing he is very good at is catering to gossip-mongering audiences like us. We want some masala stories all the time, and these gossip drugs are served by Arnab and Team to us.
We don't spare the dead too, ex Sunanda Pushkar, Jhia khan, Sridevi and Sushant.
Vigilantism is good, watchdogs are needed, Activism can aid in delivering justice, but Arnab kind of journalism can only be entertaining and none of the above. Debates cannot be monologues debates cannot be verdicts Debates are not about taking high moral ground.
It is always a HE vs THEM, later twisted into legitimate NEWS for the common man. An overtly Agenda based NEWS driving channel Republic Media Network is. This battle with Mumbai Police is also a personal one.
Dear AAM Janata, please do not get sucked into the internal matter of Arnab and Mumbai police. Arnab is a victim of his own actions, all self goals, totally self-destructive.
Of course, we are missing the 9 pm gossip but meanwhile we can make do with an Anjana Om Kashyap or a deepak chaurasia.
It doesn't mean I support or appreciate the likes of Rajdeep or a Ravish or a Faye Desouza. I watch everyone with the filters on all the time.
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The Outrage in France, the churning around the world on the issues of the cartoons vis a vis free speech is something we all should pay attention to.
People who never condemned the breaking of Bamyan Buddhas in Afganistan or the destruction of multiple temples in India or the demolition of Babri Masjid are now expressing their outrage on the cartoons and the killings that followed.
I don't know where to stand on this because it hurts me when someone makes fun of my family or the god I worship, at the same time irrespective of the religious teachings and preachings, I will not go out and behead or kill people for doing the same.
Religious intolerance is a challenge in today's times. Undoubtedly the responsibility will be passed on to educated Muslims to condemn the mullahs who preach violence in the name of God, For any Muslim if ummah is a choice over nationality then the blame for the wrongdoing of a fellow Muslim has to be shouldered by their brethren everywhere.
The silence of good people is more harmful than the violence of radical/fringe groups be it any religion or nation.
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Finally the IPL fever is coming to an end, wives across the world can take a breather as the remote control will come back into their hands.
May the best team win but politics is playing a larger part in sports these days so it will not be a surprise if a less deserving team ends up winning.
virat kohli's arrogance, his wife's rants against the veteran sunil gavaskar was uncalled for. I see no sportive spirit in the couple.
How we conduct ourselves when we are at the peak speaks volumes about us.
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To conclude it with a small quote :
"Politics, sports and religion are the three passions of the badly educated" by William H.Gas.

Shh..beware of creepy relatives and snoopy neighbors. WEDDING SEASON IS AROUND THE CORNER __________________________________________________

 Shh..beware of creepy relatives and snoopy neighbors.

WEDDING SEASON IS AROUND THE CORNER
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The wedding season is around the corner, other than bridegroom and the bride, all and sundry revelers will be busy scouting the large, small, old markets and new markets to find everything matching.
Wedding in the family rings shopping bells for every relative scattered across the globe.
I wish we can embrace the concept of repeating the sarees, make it a fashion statement to wear the same saree to 2 consecutive weddings. I have started that and pulling in many of my friends to adopt the same.
I would still say shopping, getting dressed, addabazi , applying Mehendi, chatting, eating sweets and other savories are all good great and a lot of fun too. The wedding home will make arrangements to accommodate all of this.
What bothers me and makes me cry is the conduct of the so-called near and dear ones. The Bua ji complaining about the non-availability of running water(hot), the mausa ji about the cold phulkas, the bhatija arguing about excess spice in the food, the phupa ji cribbing for alcohol, the dadis sister lamenting about the hard beds and mosquitos.
The neighbors whining of the noise and parking issues, arrey support for 2 days, help your neighbours remember if you help someone it will never go waste but will come back to you amplified manifold.
Planning a wedding is a very painful affair. The parents of the bride go through hell. They spend sleepless nights outlining finances, creating adjustments for making it uneventful. They don't feel as drained with the effort and hard work, but the tantrums of the apne log squeeze them dry.
They cry silent tears, weep in their hearts, but hide it from the daughter as they want it to be a happy event for her. but in many cases, even the bride is dragged into the chaos depriving her of the happiness on her special day.
Dear people
please always make it a habit to attend a wedding with the good intent of extending a helping hand, being a part of their happiness by sharing a small burden, by giving some physical labor, by running errands.
I stand like a rock behind the parents whichever wedding I attend. I ask for work, I ask for some responsibility of which they can be relieved. I become the gal Friday of the parents.
We are invited to take part in their happiness, but it is inbuilt in us to throw tantrums, show attitude, find faults and make sure to turn the happy moments of the family into stressful and gloomy ones.
We expect gifts from the bride's parents whereas our focus should be on providing whatever best we can to the new couple.
The very thought of these weddings brings some painful memories of gossiping, fault finding, quarrel picking, tantrum-throwing and extremely elitist attitude of few people and not to mention the very envious apne.
What we can do instead is Help the bride in getting dressed, help the mother in pinning her saree, help another aunty/girl put gajra around the bun, serve food, stand behind the bride's parents to run and pick things when they turn around to look for help.
Our life is not just about expecting and accepting it is more beautiful when we make it giving and caring.
So dear friends and relatives
the next wedding you attend be a part of the solution and not of the problem.
Go spread happiness, give happiness and you end up being the happiest, I can bet my two cents on this.
HAPPY WEDDING SEASON DEAR BUAS , MAUSAJIS AND DADIS.

Life is never over in a day!

 LIFE IS NOT OVER IN A DAY

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Life is never over in a day,
It is not over until we settle the bills.
Impermanent are Our good times.
The struggles and success follow each other,
Lows are an opportunity to kickstart a new summit,
Highs, to make us humble, alert and giving.
It is ok to celebrate a victory,
but it is not ok to look down
on the failed, as an object of scorn.
It is ok to feel powerful,
when blessed with health and wealth
but it is not ok to ruin the luckless.
We never know the plans and the power of time.
Its ability to displace, misplace and replace.
We can manipulate people and situations,
But Remember, Destiny has a mind of its own.
Our display of brilliance should lie
in beautifying our soul,
not in Arm-twisting others for selfish motives.
We may win in the short term
but, my friend when exposed
the losses will be Multifarious.
Only A Fool can make plans to accumulate wealth by stealth,
A wise man believes in filling his coffers with blessings,
Only A fool will apply his skill of ill-usage for petty gains,
Wise men never exploit as they can foresee the consequences.
Only A Fool will use every opportunity to show off his wisdom.
But a wise man would often, let himself pass off as a fool.
Life is Never over in a day
No man who walked this earth
could ever escape the retribution of time.
So my friends raise a toast every day
to good intent, kindness, hard work and love
for these alone can bring us the rewards we seek.