A Journey Through Family, Karma, Astrology and Spiritual Growth.

 A Journey Through Family, Karma, Astrology and Spiritual Growth.

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Growing up, I often watched people approach my father for help. They came from all walks of life some were strangers, some were distant relatives, and others were colleagues or acquaintances referred by someone we knew. Regardless of their relationship with us, my father permanently extended a helping hand. He would stretch it sometimes beyond his means.

He was motivated by the desire to help genuinely and maybe sometimes by the motive of self-glory too, specially in some cases when people from the higher circles came for help. However, this section never acknowledged him once the work was done.

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Most of them were profoundly grateful and remembered his kindness even years later. Even now, I often meet people who recount the assistance he gave them during their most challenging times. Some took his help for granted, complained behind his back, or expected more than he could reasonably offer. Yet, none of this deterred my father from continuing to help those who came to him.

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When I got married, I saw similar qualities in my father-in-law. As a professor of botany, he could guide hundreds of students and their parents. Many came to him seeking advice about careers, college admissions, or navigating educational systems. He would offer them a warm cup of tea, patiently listen, and give them the guidance they needed.

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However, I noticed a recurring pattern—my mother and mother-in-law sometimes expressed frustration. Their complaints weren't about the act of helping itself but about the ingratitude of some people. They found it difficult to accept that some individuals, who had once been beneficiaries of their husbands' generosity, would later fail to acknowledge them in public.

One reason for their anger was that, in those days, domestic help wasn't available around the clock to help them manage the large family and guests. Resources like milk, curd, rations, and water were also scarce. They sometimes had to cut their kids' share of time and food to serve the guests.

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Over time, I began to recognize how this dynamic reflected my life. Much like dads my husband naturally reaches out (as a doctor) to help others.

Initially, I echoed my moms concerns.

On a daily basis, he spends our family time with people from all cross sections of society, addressing their concerns by guiding them and spending extra time in his clinic.

So, it is a constant in our house to see me argue complai, and regularly lose the so-called "FAMILY TIME" battles with him. Neither he nor I evolved from that state until less than a year ago.

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But my perspective is shifting with age, maturity, and a growing understanding of karma.

Being in a position of power, knowledge, or wealth is a privilege and a blessing, and the best way to honour this blessing is to extend a hand to those seeking help.

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Reading and listening to scholars and evolved souls helping me

navigate the barriers of greed, arrogance and possessiveness.

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Astrology introduced me to the concept of karma alignment technique. I learned that helping anyone seeking your help is one of the most potent remedies in astrology. Every act of kindness contributes to our aagaman karma (incoming karma) and eventually enriches our sanchit karma (accumulated karma).

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Looking back, I see countless kind souls who lived simple and pious lives where giving came naturally and effortlessly, and here I am, force-feeding myself all this on the threshold of my 50th birthday.

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Ultimately, life is measured not by how much we take, but by how much we give. It is through giving that we align ourselves with the cosmic flow of karma.

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May the learning continue, may the creation be kind enough to let us know about FREE WILL and guide us to break through the barriers of destiny to create a life of meaning and fulfillment.

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Sarvam shree krishnarpanamasthu.

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